In the meantime:
Insight and education for those with avoidant attachment patterns and their loved ones.
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Understand yourself
A lot of popular attachment content is written from secure or anxious standpoints, and very rarely from the point of view of avoidants. Learning that how you feel and what you experience is pretty normal, hearing it articulated accurately, and seeing new ways forward can feel like a huge relief—you’re not broken or alone, and you can improve your experience of relationships!
Learn to let love in
Avoidant attachment, like all insecure attachment styles, manifests in ways that can block intimacy and keep us from experiencing fulfilling, comfortable, supportive relationships. Here you’ll find resources that can help you step into relationships without losing what’s important to you.